guys are such idiots when they are around their friends.
so you can say all these cute things to me and we can snuggle in bed but when you’re around your friends all you can do is sit there and stare while your friends glare at me and say absolutely nothing? like i don’t get it…? but thanks for making me look/feel like such an outsider……
clearly, he appreciates you and he loves your presence otherwise, he would have asked somebody else to attend this special event with him! in all honesty, i believe you should take the chance and go. not only will this be an amazing experience, i’m sure your friendship will grow as well! let me tell you a quick little story about myself and my experience with these sorts of things as it may help you think through it all.
my senior prom was the first time i had a date to anything, the first time i danced with a boy. i was incredibly nervous at first… was i supposed to ask him to dance or is he supposed to ask me? where do i put my hands? how am i supposed to move? i was incredibly nervous. however, i went through with it all. i accepted his invitation, and i went and i danced and i had fun and i came home that night and wondered why it ever crossed my mind that i was truly considering skipping the entire thing. i suppose what i’m trying to say is that with things like these, you aren’t going to know exactly how they’re going to work out, exactly what’s going to happen until you are there in the moment. it could be the best moment, it could be the worst. if it’s the best, wonderful! and if it’s simply a complete failure, consider it all a wonderful experience, a blessing in disguise. don’t miss out on this opportunity and spend the night wondering how it all could have gone xo
asked by Anonymous